3 unsung heroes reunited in aged care
Great Grandfather Bob Sadler had no idea he was living alongside two brothers in arms, in an Aged Care home in Geelong. But in a twist of fate, the three British seniors have all just been honoured with commemorative service medals, and developed a new unbreakable bond.
It was more than 50 years ago when three men, all now around 80 years old, were conscripted into the British Armed Forces, a world away from their current home in Australia.
So it came as a shock when all three were awarded service honours from the British High Commission this year.
“I thought… wow,” says Bob, “I never expected any kind of recognition because it’s not a medal for a deed that I performed, it’s for services to my country. And in a nutshell, as far as my grandchildren or great grandchildren are concerned, their grand-dad is now ‘Mongol the Magnificent’.”
The badge was organised by the British High Commission more than a decade ago, but 78 year old Bob Sadler, and 82 year olds Eric Wainwright and Ron Ridyard didn’t find out about it as they had all since moved continents. But a volunteer at Bupa Bellarine Shane Clarke connected the dots, and alerted the British Embassy of the trio’s new home.
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The three men have become the best of friends, wearing their new commemorative badges with pride.
“It’s amazing to think they’ve walked the same paths, but never before met,” says Bupa Bellarine General Manager Jannie Piercy.
“It was really wonderful, and it did bring about a real sense of mateship. Those three men now eat their lunches together, and spend time at the RSL club together, so it’s given them a wonderful new connection.”
“It’s a strange thing you know, we come from very different backgrounds,” says Bob. “But it’s like a brotherhood. When we wear our uniform or when we wear our berets, we’re exactly the same. There’s no graphic designer, CEO or storeman, there are just three old timers who are back in the services again.”
His wife Muriel is also living in the Bupa Aged Care home, the couple share a room and have just celebrated their 58th Wedding Anniversary.
Bob left for the war just two months after they were married, but Muriel wrote him a letter every day he was away, without fail.
“We met when I was 17 and she was 16,” Bob remembers. “She told me her mother was profoundly deaf and she’d grown up being her mother’s ears. I had a profoundly deaf father and I grew up being my father’s ears, so we fitted into each other’s families perfectly. Now we have four daughters, four grandchildren, and four great grandchildren.”
The Bupa home held a special celebration to honour the men and their new badges, in recognition of their past, and their incredible history.
The relationship and recognition has brought new life to the three friends, who now stand up just that little bit taller, and walk with a little spring in their steps.
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